Monogamy, while the most popular relationship style, is not the only relationship style available. In fact, new research suggests that people in open or polyamorous relationships are actually just as happy, if not happier, than those in monogamous relationships. Take that, societal norms!

Create an advantages and disadvantages listing.

Before you decide to pursue an open relationship, you should make a list of pros and cons, suggests Kristie Overstreet, PhD., a clinical sexologist and psychotherapist: “This will force you to come from a logical versus emotional place.” If youre going to make an open relationship work, there cannot be any surprises-you have to know all of each other’s insecurities and desires. Continuarea →